by Wolf » Mon May 05, 2014 11:00 am
You may have to work with that for a while as it is obvious that you are spending more time on training than on bonding with him and winning his trust. the result is that he will do what you ask for food but he really doesn't do it because he likes or trusts you.
If he will only step up when he sees food, then you can't substitute affection or head scratches. You mat just have to deal with this until you can gain his trust, You can try targeting him onto your hand, but I doubt that you will have much success with him staying there until he trusts you. This is probably the main drawback of training with treats alone.
This is the reason that I ask so many questions right at first, it is also why I told you to be patient and spend your time on bonding and gaining his trust. I know that it does not appear to be accomplishing anything, but the fact is that it is by far the most important thing that you can do as it impacts everything that comes after.
You can still continue to work with him at the present level, but I heartily recommend that you also go back to sitting down in front of his cage with an open door and just talk to him softly. place your hand where he can climb on it if he chooses. Wait for him to come to you. It may take some time, but don't ask him to. Let him do this on his own then give a treat or better yet, gently scratch his head while telling what a good bird he is. If you want him to willingly spend time with you, then you must complete this step. You will not get much further than you are if you don't do this properly.