by Pajarita » Wed Oct 01, 2014 1:18 pm
Oh, don't worry for a single second about not knowing, you WILL know, trust me on that! When the bird wants to be with you all the time, he has bonded. It's as simple as that. But to give a few pointers of what to look for: he gets excited when you first walk in, he approaches the side of the cage closer to you, he flutters his wings at you, he flies to your shoulder, he preens your face and hair, kisses your ears or gently grabs your ear lobes in his beak and 'tastes' them, he calls for you when you leave the room, he tries to kiss your lips and feed from them - these are all typical signs of a bird which loves you. Now, I'll be honest with you, I've never had a cockatiel that did ALL these things because I always try to get the ones that were hand-fed and human-imprinted to bond with the other tiels (it's healthier for them and makes a happier life than depending on a human) but the two hand-fed ones I've had would ALWAYS fly to my shoulder, preen my face and hair and take treats from my hand even though I never did anything to get them to bond with me.