by Pajarita » Wed Aug 19, 2015 11:11 am
This rant is not against you but I am SOOOOOO very tired of the stupidity of the 'ignore the screams or you will be reinforcing the behavior' crap! It's so illogical it's mind-boggling! Parrots evolved to find safety in numbers. The flock is their safety net against predators so, when they are alone, they are afraid and anxious and call for company exactly the same way a baby who waking up finds himself all alone in a room and starts crying. Now, I ask you, would you ignore the baby to teach it not to cry? Or would you go and pick it up to comfort him and reassure him that he is not alone and that there is no danger? Do you know of any adult that having been comforted by his momma when he cried as a baby continued crying for the rest of his life? No, you don't. But, on the other hand, babies that were raised in orphanages that did not have enough staff to pick up every baby and comfort it when they cried do grow up with severe behavioral issues, don't they?
I have a lesser sulfur cockatoo that came to me as a screamer (I have other ex-screamers but Freddie was, by far, the worst of them and yours is also a too). This bird lived with a loving couple who worked all day long so he was all on his own during the entire day and he screamed bloody murder all the time for 21 years! It took me 10 months of comforting him and keeping him company all day long, then getting him very gradually and very slowly used to living in the birdroom (cage free and surrounded by other birds) but you don't hear a peep out of him now during the day.
Ignoring a bird screaming for help (which, contrary to the idiots who believe that the birds are 'misbehaving', is exactly what they are doing) in his loneliness and fear is not only futile because it's not removing the cause of his screaming, it's also cruel because it's basically telling the bird that no matter how dire the situation, you won't be there for him. Please don't do it. It's hard to make a bird stop screaming all the time. I won't lie to you, it is! But it's the right thing to do. Parrots did not choose to be taken in as human pets so it falls to us to ensure that captivity is not a worse ordeal than it needs to be.