I do indeed love all sorts of critters! There are very few animals, pet or wild, that I dislike. I even love bugs! But, since we live in a dinky city apartment we have to keep it down to earth. Two ringnecks and a snake is it!
The concept of clipping a bird's wings just "icks" me out; I mean their bodies were built in essence to fly so a flightless bird being skittish kind of makes sense to me. The only exception to this of course is the poor endangered kakapo! I hope your birds warm up to you again!
What Pajarita mentioned about lighting and how parrots perceive it is indeed true as well; they sense and feel light on a whole different level than most creatures we're used to. Birds also have really thin skin underneath their feathers so albeit they originate from warm locations, they're not "sunbathers". Sunlight is important to them but not in "direct" doses like that.
I've seen good pet shops sell specialized "sun lamps" that have been created specifically for pet birds so I think we'll probably go with one of those! I've been diagnosed with severe clinical depression too, and it always gets a whole lot worse in the winter due to the lack of light. Ergo, it's also healthy not just for the featherbutts but us humans too.
Simo calmed down even quicker today than yesterday. He's been sampling blueberries and seems to quite like them too (and looked very funny with having blueberry stains on his beak)! Small steps!
I think I forgot to mention in my very original post that me and my husband are pretty much home all the time so I think this is a huge factor in getting him used to us. He enjoys observing us! ... and we him. I think his mate will be a little lutino lady!