by thesilversakura » Mon Sep 14, 2015 5:45 pm
It sure is. Before I got Peach I did my fair share of reading and I thought I was going to be fine....but my god there is so much to learn. Parrots are a massive, massive undertaking if you're going to treat them with fairness and compassion, and it's completely unlike any other animal I've owned...and there have been a lot. People who compare them to dogs have no idea, I confess I used to think the same a few years ago. With dogs you have a few training methods, you repeat and offer treats and they learn. I've never had a dog who hasn't responded well to positive reinforcement training and love, even those who were horribly abused.
But birds...it's a two way street. There is no unconditional love, no automatic trust with you as the pack leader. It all has to be earned over a long period of time, every bird is different. Just being on this forum has taught me that. They have a personality, they have feelings....I feel more like an equal, or the parent of a child. Peach lets me pick her up from anywhere in my room, but absolutely will not step up on her sisal spring where she sleeps. She loves her blue Nelly, a baby's toy elephant she snuggles up to when she's tired during the day. She gives me kisses, but only when I give her scratches. She nips me when I don't let her eat my earphones, but she's very well behaved with everything else. She clings to my long hair like a swing when I'm wandering round, even when I do my physio exercises and get on the floor. She falls asleep in there too, making a little nest in my neck and tickling me.
I'm just so excited to see how Houdini's personality flourishes - he let my mother pick him up and put him back in his cage when he fell asleep today, after being so afraid of hands the entire time we've had him, he was dozing in her arms! He's constantly fitting himself in the smallest of spaces and falling asleep, behind the photo frame on the bedside table, behind the teddy bears, the corner of the shelf, inside an empty food bowl, in his soft toy, actually IN the bed....hence the name. *gushes* I just really love birds, okay?