Hi there,
I acquired my alexandrine parakeet almost a year ago now, was told she was about a year old at the time. She is more fearful than aggressive - i've been trying to teach her to step up for months, it's the thing she just won't trust me with. I have a feeling she was not handled properly or enough where i purchased her from (pet store) and she was the only one available. She has definitely come a long way though, as she can target to a clicker and stick, spin and waves when she wants a treat or if she wants to be pet. She lets me touch her head, beak, neck and back, and vocalises to me and no one else in the household (one person bird).
I am finding the biggest issue is the stepping up. She has actually gone backwards and goes to bite my hand when i put it towards her. She might put one foot on, then run away from me. There have been times when she puts both feet, but hooks the back toes over the perch and clings really hard so i can't lift her up or move her around. Whenever i use a wood perch for her, she flies in fright, so i stopped trying that. I've watched so many videos, i have a barbara heidenreich dvd that i watch every now and then for inspiration - i just don't know what i'm doing wrong! It's stressful and kind of hurts, particularly when i take Pip to the vet or the bird minders because it's always 'ooh your bird doesnt know how to step up' 'it's up to you you know' and such. I don't know if it is just me being not good enough, or that my bird does not trust me enough yet.
Thanks for reading, please let me know some things i can do as I love my bird and want our relationship to be a good one!