Update on Tiko

[Wolf]

Brandon, I am not twisting anything, I am going by exactly what you are saying. Perhaps instead of assuming that I am attacking you, if there is a misunderstanding, you could try explaining it differently. There is nothing that can't be worked out if we are willing to talk about it rather than just jumping down someone throat when you don't like what they have to say. Most of these incidents are just misunderstandings, sometimes they are because of how something was said and sometimes they are due to how the other person takes what is said. Many times this is a result of the way that things are normally said and meant in the area in which you live. Relax.

[ParrotsForLife]

Ah Wolf I explained very clearly lol I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you anymore just know Pajarita and you are not welcome on my threads I'm not saying you cant post on them but I wont be having any conversations with you on my threads anymore because all it does is start crap.

[seagoatdeb]

Brandon, I am not twisting anything, I am going by exactly what you are saying. Perhaps instead of assuming that I am attacking you, if there is a misunderstanding, you could try explaining it differently. There is nothing that can't be worked out if we are willing to talk about it rather than just jumping down someone throat when you don't like what they have to say. Most of these incidents are just misunderstandings, sometimes they are because of how something was said and sometimes they are due to how the other person takes what is said. Many times this is a result of the way that things are normally said and meant in the area in which you live. Relax.

Well said, communication online does not give you the visual clues to go on, and it is easy to misunderstand, especially when you are from different Countries, cultures, cohort groups.....etc.
More patience is needed online, so misunderstandings can occure less.

[seagoatdeb]

Ah Wolf I explained very clearly lol I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you anymore just know Pajarita and you are not welcome on my threads I'm not saying you cant post on them but I wont be having any conversations with you on my threads anymore because all it does is start crap.

Brandon, he did misunderstand, and both of you can learn form this, I am sure Wolf will be carefull to ask to make sure he understands you better, and you could be a little more patient, because as long as Wolf wants to make it better, change can happen.

[ParrotsForLife]

Ah Wolf I explained very clearly lol I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you anymore just know Pajarita and you are not welcome on my threads I'm not saying you cant post on them but I wont be having any conversations with you on my threads anymore because all it does is start crap.

Brandon, he did misunderstand, and both of you can learn form this, I am sure Wolf will be carefull to ask to make sure he understands you better, and you could be a little more patient, because as long as Wolf wants to make it better, change can happen.

Well I definitely will not be talking to Pajarita again she's not a very nice person at all and she is just plain rude.

[Wolf]

Sometimes, we feel that we have explained things very clearly and indeed, we have in our own minds, but this is because we know what it is that we are trying to say. The other person does not know what you are trying to say and so their understanding of your words are always drawn from the experiences that they have had in their lives. This is just one of the causes of misunderstandings, Generally it is best to assume that these misunderstandings are just that and try to better express ourselves as well as to try to understand better what the other person is trying to convey with their words. Many times the knowledge of how you say things and therefore what you are actually saying can only be gained over a period of time where there are misunderstandings and the talking back and forth to eliminate them. Sometimes it just takes time. It is not so different than learning to work with our birds.

[ParrotsForLife]

Whatever

[Chantilly]

Ah Wolf I explained very clearly lol I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you anymore just know Pajarita and you are not welcome on my threads I'm not saying you cant post on them but I wont be having any conversations with you on my threads anymore because all it does is start crap.

Well I definitely will not be talking to Pajarita again she's not a very nice person at all and she is just plain rude.

Oh for Star Clans sake! Brandon, Brandon, Brandon, tisc tisc. Wolf and Paj are not only very knowledgable but also very helpful and willing to share that knowledge. For you to blow them away like that is so silly, what will happen when you have your next crisis and come running for their help!? They are only trying to help and further the birds lives, you can not hate them for that.
I am so grateful to be able to be talking to them and learning from them and you should be too, if you TRY and BELEIVE you CAN! So try to work with them, forgive any miscomunications and learn from them.
seriously dude, if you annoy someone like Wolf or Paj off the forum, I will be leaving too. So please stop trying to start blues with everyone.

[Wolf]

For anyone that has not taken the time to read them here is a link to the rules of this forum that you all agreed to abide by when you joined the forum, if you have not already done so please read them viewtopic.php?f=6&t=2

First of all I am not leaving the forum.

Here is the thing people this is your forum respect it as such because it is what you make of it. If you do not wants fights on the forum, quit fighting, if you want others to be understanding of your mistakes and misunderstandings then be understanding of theirs, if you want others to be respectful of you and your opinions then be respectful of theirs.

You are expected to be enough of an adult to follow the rules that you agreed to, you are expected to be mature enough to not go around calling people names or insulting each other. You are expected to treat everyone with respect and not trying to cause problems.

No matter what I do to try to end one of your disputes I am going to be wrong because someone is not going to agree or approve of what I do, but I am not the bad guy, I am here to help if I can.

Perhaps you find it too difficult for you to be tolerant of others, maybe it is too hard for you to be respectful of others even when you do not agree, maybe it is too much for you to not call people names or to not come here and cause trouble, and if so then perhaps you should consider leaving this forum and find one more to your liking.

[ParrotsForLife]

Ah Wolf I explained very clearly lol I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you anymore just know Pajarita and you are not welcome on my threads I'm not saying you cant post on them but I wont be having any conversations with you on my threads anymore because all it does is start crap.

Well I definitely will not be talking to Pajarita again she's not a very nice person at all and she is just plain rude.

Oh for Star Clans sake! Brandon, Brandon, Brandon, tisc tisc. Wolf and Paj are not only very knowledgable but also very helpful and willing to share that knowledge. For you to blow them away like that is so silly, what will happen when you have your next crisis and come running for their help!? They are only trying to help and further the birds lives, you can not hate them for that.
I am so grateful to be able to be talking to them and learning from them and you should be too, if you TRY and BELEIVE you CAN! So try to work with them, forgive any miscomunications and learn from them.
seriously dude, if you annoy someone like Wolf or Paj off the forum, I will be leaving too. So please stop trying to start blues with everyone.

Stop talking crap did I say I wanted anybody to leave? No I didn't and I don't like Paj shes not a nice person and I will never forgive her after what she said to me.