by sidech » Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:57 am
Why don't you let your dad help you? Doesn't mean the bird won't love you if he gets ahndled by many different people. Socialisation is important at an early age.
To tame, sit by the cage, just reading a book outloud, talking to him, singing, etc. Never force yourself on the bird. Let him come to you, encouraging but not forcing. The bird has to trust you before he wants to be with you. Never try to grab him while in his cage; that is his own place, his comfort zone. Plus, birds can be territorial and you're just asking for trouble. He will come out when he wants to, don't worry. Also, never open the cage door when you don't have a lot of time in front of you. You don't want to have to chase the bird and then have to force him back in his cage. Ideally, you just let the bird go back on his own, altough not always possible.
Just like with humans, relationships with animals take time and patience. And birds are not like dogs, they need more time and patience.
Was your bird hand tame ? This makes a lot of difference in the time it will take to build the relationship as well. You can't expect a parent raised baby to come around S fast as a hand tamed one.
Keep working at it, and please, let your bird interact with different people, if you don't want a little monster on your hands in a few years...