JAM wrote:i think that if the parrot wants to go in the cage, it should be allowed.
they should have the say in where they want to go, in or out, just leave the door open for her to come out if she wants.
Actually no. The parrot gets used to a routine and usually wants to just stick to what it knows. This is a mistake most beginners make with a new parrot. They open the cage door and the parrot doesn't come out so they figure it doesn't want to come out and never take it out. If the parrot has never been outside its cage, it did not have the chance to realize how great it is to be out with you. Of course it is your responsibility to ensure that its time out of the cage is as good if not better than inside. However, if you don't take the effort to initially "force" your parrot out and then show it how good it is, it will never know and always opt to stay in cage or cage area. By showing things and putting the parrot in certain areas, you will teach it what is acceptable play/behavior. Once it knows that is the norm, it will prefer and choose to do that itself. So if the parrot is used to coming out of cage, it will choose to come out of cage. If the parrot is used to being in cage all the time, it may well choose not to come out.
I have heard so many people say they leave their parrots caged all the time cause they never venture out (even if door is open) but it's the human's fault for not encouraging the parrot to be out.
I do agree though that the environment outside of cage should be more desirable than in cage if the parrot is less likely to want to come out. On the other hand, for a parrot that always wants to be out and is hard to get back into cage, the opposite should be done. Then put best toys, perches, and food inside of cage rather than out.