Spencer usually is willing going back to the cage if I put him near the cage. He won't step up to my hand, but will step up to a perch I am holding. Today, I he flied out of the cage while I was changing food and water instead of I let him out. He doesn't fly very well, so he ended up on my bed, he stepped up on the perch I offer and I put him on another perch on my desk let him stay there to look at me while I am working.
I played with him for a few mins probably every 15 mins or so to keep him happy, and he stayed there for about 3 hours. He then suddenly took off, and flied to the living room. He then walked around the living room to explore, so I let him do a bit of exploring for about 10 mins. Because of my ankle, I asked my brother to hold a perch to let Spencer step up, and put him back to the perch that is on my desk. He stayed there for another 15 mins, and took off again flying towards the cage, but couldn't make it, and landed on the floor near the cage. I thought he's trying to get back to the cage so I let him step up, and lift him near the cage, and that's when disaster began, he took off from the perch and flied back to the living room, from then onwards he absolutely refused to step up, and he won't even go back to his room for the whole day. I tried lure him back with water and food, he just ignored them. He was a bit frightened as well, since for about an hour, he just hid in a corner, so we left him alone. Until he came back out to open and exploring again, we tried to approach him, we can even do a few tricks with him while he's on the floor, but he won't take the treats nor would he step up, and he still won't go anywhere near his room. Then we decided to leave him alone for a few more hours, and try again after dinner. He did take this time to explore, chew up a few things, and even tried to climb a few times in the living room, but he didn't try to fly.
After dinner, my brother and I tried again. Okay, he still moved away when he saw us holding a perch, so we knew it wouldn't work. We really had to catch him since we've been locking our dog outside for Spencer's safety, but we had to let the dog back in soon, then we finally decided to towel Spencer. We made him go back to his room first by slowly herding him by holding a towel, when he is in a good position, we turned off all the light, and shine a flash light on him to catch him. We didn't have any experience on toweling, so he got away the first two tries, but we got him back to the cage on the third try. As soon as he's back to the cage, he acts normal, would do tricks, just would drop the treat I gave him. He did drink a lot of water, but I haven't observed him eating yet, i am betting he would eat soon from the look of him.
I know this probably completely destroyed all the trust that has been built for last 40 days.
I am almost certain that if I let him out again, he would ran away again, and won't step up and all that sort of things due to the this experience. Any suggestions on what I should do from now on? I am tempting to wait for my recovery before I let him out again, by then I would probably start over from the very beginning to build the trust again. Actually, I am really lost now...
Thanks for reading, and any suggestions would be very much appreciated.
Cheers
Kenneth







