Hello Everyone..
It seems like the problem you're having is everyone's beginning problem. I also have a congo african Grey + Alexandrine parakeet and trust me.... regardless of the type and size, both my parrots at one month old age had the "exploration" problem. It took the Alexandrine about 3 months of age to get over it and my Baby african which is almost 4 months has just groomed into a good mannered Parrot. So it takes time buddy

The trick is to slowly and patiently deal with your parrot. Love it and be with it all the time and help her explore more. Michael's beginner guide for stepping up and bonding with the parrot article are the best across the internet for this and covers almost all the aspects in one article. To cut the long stroy short: My Baby african now 1. shakes hand, 2. steps up and down in return for sunflower seed, 3. comes on stick (on cue), 4.touch the stick (target training) and 5. steps up so i can flip it around and make him lye in my hand like im holding a baby (though he doesn't let go of my fingers).
SO therefore.......... let it be a parrot for some time as she's going to be one of you or US someday down the road and then we'd miss their parrot instincts
