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Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby Mohtad allawala » Sat Jan 04, 2014 3:03 am

Hi guys I'm a HUGE parrot lover and already have a very well behaved and socialized sun conure :sun: and have owned an irn :irn: before too. I was looking forward to adopting another parrot of which out of years of research I came up with either an amazon :amazon: grey :gray: or eclectus. I've done plenty research and know the dietary needs of all three and can very easily handle each. I actually am very good with birds and really hit it off with an eclectus at the pet store. I have enough cash for each bird, their monthly nail and wing clips, their food, their large cages, new toys every two weeks and live in a family of five and a butler who all interact with and take care of my :sun: and will do so with each one of these birds. The ages of people in my family are 6,13,16,41 and 43. Nobody is allergic to any of these birds however my mum likes a little distance from their claws. The reason I approached this forum was because I needed to decide which bird is best for my family by learning from your experience from these birds. I need a bird which I can work with patiently like I did with my sun. I turned my sun from a biting, unsocialized bird on seeds and nuts to a very well socialized bird who loves hopping shoulders, turning upside down and making little kissing noises. I want to be able to work with him or her patiently making it overcome fears from his new life and owners. I don't want to get bitten every time I try to change food or give a treat but rather have a more patient un aggressive bird. If I am not wrong i feel it is the eclectus but I would really need your help to understand each birds positives and negatives and how well they are with a family and not with only one person. Thank you! :D
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby Pajarita » Sat Jan 04, 2014 10:29 am

If I had a choice, I would never go with an eclectus, their breeding season in the wild is too long, their diet way too specialized (if you check, you will see that the only eclectus that live over 20 were either wild caught or first generation offspring of wild-caught, 99% of them die young), they don't display before they bite and they never give you a warning nip, they always go for the kill.

I love grays and think they are fabulous but I don't see them as family birds, to tell you the truth. They do much better in a quiet environment with a couple of adults who can devote a lot of time to them.

As to amazons, well, I love them all! But males can be quite aggressive if they get hormonal so you would have to be super careful about the number of dayhours and diet.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby sidech » Sat Jan 04, 2014 10:30 am

Male Eclectus are very sweet and do not bond with just one person. They are polygamous birds, and it makes a world of difference. Females are another game. I would not go this way. They are the dominant one in the couple, they nest nearly all year and will defend their nest with great aggressivity. Breeders will advise you to never let a female walk on the floor, to avoid her findong a spot for nesting and you getting attacked !

Back to males. Like I said they are very sweet. The only thong is you need to teach them to be independant, and not let them cling to you. Biggest complaints about males are the constant regurgitating and masturbating on people. This happens when they get handled too much and in the wrong way (caressing beak too much, under the wings, near the tail, etc). But overall, if you respect those rules, they make very fine pets I find.

My male Eclectus is almost 3 1/2.

Greys are sais to be phobic, and Amazons, very aggressive towards non-partners.

But I'm biased I guess, and I've never owned those two.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby sidech » Sat Jan 04, 2014 10:34 am

Pajarita wrote:If I had a choice, I would never go with an eclectus, their breeding season in the wild is too long, their diet way too specialized (if you check, you will see that the only eclectus that live over 20 were either wild caught or first generation offspring of wild-caught, 99% of them die young), they don't display before they bite and they never give you a warning nip, they always go for the kill.


I completely disagree with you. They are very easy to feed when you know what you're doing. I can provide a good diet plan to help. And I do know Eclectus who are living past 25.

About the not warning part, never heard of that, and I am very educated about Eclectus, and know many, many people who own them. You're probably talking about the female being aggressive, which I agree with. But males are sweetest parrots of all. They are suckers for affection !
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby cml » Sat Jan 04, 2014 4:33 pm

Amazons, very aggressive towards non-partners.

Stitch is not more aggressive towards either me or my wife, and he's not a one person bird at all. He enjoys different things from us both.

As to amazons, well, I love them all! But males can be quite aggressive if they get hormonal so you would have to be super careful about the number of dayhours and diet.

Well, they can, but tbh not overly so. Stitch is hormonal now, he's going through the phase of reaching sexual maturity and growing up so he's a typical teenager. Leroy is as well, but they show it in different ways.

It's quite easy to if an amazon is aggressive or about to bite as amazons have a very clear body language though and its generally not a problem.

My little amazon is the biggest cuddlebug there is and not really that aggressive, though I am always careful to only scratch his head and only for short periods of time. I think there are a lot of hearsay about amazons out there.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby GreenWing » Sat Jan 04, 2014 7:32 pm

Well, all parrots are different (and Ekkies, 'Zons, and Greys definitely are)! I had a Senegal and she was completely different than my Grey. Their needs are different. My Sennie was more bold, my Grey more sensitive, my Sennie wanted to constantly be on me and cuddle, my Grey is more independent.

But I digress.

Ekkies have a very specialized diet in which their food needs to be fresh (see that list I put up, approved by Sidech). As Sidech noted, female Ekkies, which are scarlet in color and are GORGEOUS, can be totally bitchy. I would love to get an Ekkie and plan on getting one in the future but like Sidech I will get a male for sure. Ekkies are indeed polyamorous and they are not one-person birds, which is a good thing if you want your bird to love your partner, too. Greys are typically one person birds and I have a female, who prefers me and women in general. But she likes my partner enough and steps up for him. I got lucky adopting a rehomed Grey that's pretty socialized, as they can totally gender discriminate and are known for it. Still, she likes the quiet and is independent and will cuddle a little bit, but not compared to my Sennie who REALLY loved to cuddle. Basically, my Grey is content being a perch potato and talking while perched, while watching me. She likes her space, but gets a little nervous when I leave the room. However, my Grey's vocabulary is INSANE and I have no idea how many words she can say... and she's still learning.

Amazons are wonderful, beautiful birds but I agree with Pajarita on their aggressiveness: I have seen them be aggressive and attack people. I still visit the 'Zon I was close to buying, she likes ME, but I watched her attack another woman while visiting with her. It depends on the bird, surely. But Amazons, when happy, release this wonderful rose-sweet musk scent which is WONDERFUL. And they can be excellent talkers.

There is also the issue of dust, I think Ekkies are not considered to be "dusty" in comparison to Greys... not sure about the dust of Amazons. However, I think an air purifier is needed regardless if you have a parrot... any parrot.

I think it's a matter of getting to know a bird and seeing if the bird "chooses" you. This can take time for some birds but others "choose" real quick, like one male African Grey I encountered who wanted to be my mate almost immediately, lol. It's great you did the research, now you just need to spend time with the birds and see if your personalities click and if one of them chooses you.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby Pajarita » Sun Jan 05, 2014 10:32 am

sidech wrote:
Pajarita wrote:If I had a choice, I would never go with an eclectus, their breeding season in the wild is too long, their diet way too specialized (if you check, you will see that the only eclectus that live over 20 were either wild caught or first generation offspring of wild-caught, 99% of them die young), they don't display before they bite and they never give you a warning nip, they always go for the kill.


I completely disagree with you. They are very easy to feed when you know what you're doing. I can provide a good diet plan to help. And I do know Eclectus who are living past 25.

About the not warning part, never heard of that, and I am very educated about Eclectus, and know many, many people who own them. You're probably talking about the female being aggressive, which I agree with. But males are sweetest parrots of all. They are suckers for affection !


There are exceptions to the short life problem but it's a matter of percentages, besides, if you think about it and do a bit of research, you will find out that prior the Wild Bird Conservation Act, 99.99% of ekkies sold were wild-caught and they only started breeding them in captivity after that so I stand with my words, ekkies that are 25 years or older are 99.99% wild caught or first generation offspring and there aren't that many of them compared to the huge number of ekkie pets there are.

As to diet, yes, we have learned a lot since then but it's VERY hard to give them a good diet, much, much, much harder than any other parrot. They seem to age much faster than other species, they are highly hormonal birds (hens are known to lay two clutches every year) and they develop problems that other species don't have (wing flicking, toe tapping) as well as conditions that are only common to old birds (like high cholesterol and liver malfunction) when they are still way too young for them (I am talking birds that are not even ten!). They are also very prone to FDB and there is now a theory that they are salicylate sensitive. So, with all due respect, in my personal opinion, they are one of the hardest species to keep healthy in captivity and you need to put A LOT of thought, research, work and money into it - something most people can't or won't do.

You are correct that males are sweeter than females but they can be holy terrors, too. I took in a chronic plucker which was a doozy! He was the first bird I've ever heard growling as he was coming for me with his wings and beak open and murder in his eyes! And his name was Romeo! LOL As to body language, they are different from other parrots, they don't really show they are not happy with you like a gray or a zon would, for example. And they don't give you a warning nip, either. They just kind of freeze and look at you without batting an eyelash and you think everything is OK when BAM! they bite real fast and hard (an ekkie was the only bird I've had that killed another one -and for no good reason either! all the lovie did was fly over and perch next to it and a second later, she was dead) so I would say that this is not a bird for a family with children.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby Cedardave » Sun Jan 05, 2014 7:19 pm

I think you are going to get a differant opinion from everyone that cares to post.So heres my two cents worth.Do your research....access your budget....choose a bird that is healthy and that personality and visually is what you want.If grey,amazon or eclectus are what youve narrowed your choices down to...then choose the one you like best.Everyone has and will,have differant experiances with differant birds.Enviroment, nutrition and the time you spend make up a large part of the pet you will end up with.Each have their challenges.Im not disparaging any of the remarks made in previous posts...I just think if youve researched the species that interest you,the choice is your to make and live with.I have greys and amazons.I will also be adding ecectus.They all have their own distinct personality even within the same species.Of the 5 greys we have..no two are the same. Best of luck.
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby sidech » Sun Jan 05, 2014 8:30 pm

Pajarita, I find it very strange that you're the only person I've ever heard talking so negatively about Eclectus. And I do read a whole lot about them, and know a great number of breeders and pet owners across the world. Ekkies are very common in Australia, they are one of their favorite parrots.

Out of curiosity, what is your experience based on ?
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Re: Eclectus, Amazon or Grey. What's best for me?

Postby Mohtad allawala » Mon Jan 06, 2014 11:08 am

I can cope with every type of dietary needs so no worrying about that. I now find the male ekkie and grey most appealing but would personally go for the grey as they can talk much better and that's the only thing left that they can compete against. Amazons are clowns but too temperamental for me. But yesterday at the pet market I really fell in love with the native plum headed conure. It was for $25 lol. Many available and it was soooooo cute I couldn't resist it so I'm thinking plum head now. Lol. Really liked their personalities when I met a few and searched on it. Thanks anyway. Maybe still will get a grey but later on.
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