Danish wrote: I think the generalizations are always a bit odd, as each bird has their own personality .... all birds want attention, all birds can be loud, all birds can be loving and kind. I've found after all these years they are more loyal than a dog and somewhat distant like a cat... and with any pet it's what you give to their life and what they give back to you ( love ) that is the motivating factor.
It is most definitely true that parrots have individual personalities and that, like humans and all other animals, they are a product of both nature and nurture. But generalizations are also true. All parrots (not birds, passerines get stressed out if subjected to human attention) want attention but a cockatoo will need much, much more attention than an amazon. All can be loud but a GCC scream is nothing compared to the honking of an unhappy U2. All can be loving and kind but sunnies are nippy brats compared to a well-adjusted gray. And you are 100% correct in that you receive what you give (this concept is my motto) but, unfortunately for parrot keepers, the end results are not consistent because, sometimes, their beginnings (parents, breeders, shipment, etc) were so traumatic that the poor things can never quite 'get over' them...
People hate generalizations when it comes to animal species or breeds. They take them as unfair blanket statements and they are! Up to a point. The reason for them is that species (as well as breeds as in dogs, cats, horses, etc) evolved (or were genetically engineered by man) to be a certain way and, in truth, slight individual differences aside, 99.99% of members of that particular species or breed will have physical as well as psychological similarities. And it's these similarities that make up the different profiles that help people choose the right animal for them because anybody knows (or should know) that, for example, if you work all day long, you can't have a cockatoo or a Jack Russell terrier. You can have a couple of conures, tiels, quakers, etc and you might get away with an older amazon (although I would not recommend having any single parrot all alone, all day long) and a cocker spaniel or a shih-Tzu, though. Generalizations are very, very useful to us and helpful to the animals -but only if people heed them, of course.