by Navre » Sun Aug 21, 2016 7:39 am
If you live in the US, a Quaker may not be an option for you, anyhow. Some states prohibit them, due to the fact that they can survive and establish feral populations. Massachusetts used to ban them, and Rhode Island still does.
You are right to seek a bird that matches your situation and lifestyle. There are just too may species to list characteristics one by one, but I'd suggest that you start by eliminating species that you know won't work for you. For example, maybe you have limited space; A Macaw would probably be a bad choice. Maybe you have lung problems; a cockatoo might be something to avoid.
Also, your age is a factor. I have an 18-month-old African Grey at the rescue who adores me, but because I'm 50+, I thought it would be irresponsible to consider adopting her. She is going to live another 50 years, and I certainly will not.
While general species characteristics are valuable, it's much more valuable to get to know individual, adult birds. I have had Macaws at the rescue who were quiet, and not destructive. That's atypical, and it's only something you can know about a bird once it is an adult. A bird can change when his situation changes, at any time, but generally once a bird is an adult, he is who he is going to be. Baby birds and juvenile birds tend to love everyone, but they can change when they become sexually mature. Some will prefer men, other women, others won't care as much. Some birds will love children, some will hate them. It's hard to say until the bird is mature.
I don't know where you are, but I'd suggest that you seek out a parrot rescue in your area. Some SPCA adoption centers have birds, too, although usually not many.
I tend to find that Greys like me, and female birds like me. Lately I've been doing better with Macaws, but I know I really don't have the room for one.
Good luck, and welcome!