Hi!!
Jo was pretty good from the beginning but as soon as something too scary happened she would go one step back so it is slow progress. Like for example we got her in May and our vacation was planned for July... we couldnt bring her so she went to a bird sitter. Right before we went on vacation she was almost sitting on our hands feeding but when we came back from vacation the birdsitter had to grab her and that ofcourse made her scared of hands again. So its two steps forward one step back all the time. But its fine; I had a lot to learn, had never had a bird before so slow is fine by me

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I have a perch mounted on the wall which is her favourite place te be when she is out. It has some toys hanging on it and it is right next to her tree and climbing net. Ill try to take some pictures

She now has enough courage to run around on the desk and table... she looks so proud when she is doing that... doing everything she isnt suppose to
I know some people wouldnt agree with chasing Jo away from the TV but I think it is so important because she can really get hurt so I prefer to scare her away to really make her understand it is not ok.
I think that is a good aproach to just hold you hand in and let him get use to it... so he understand nothing bad is going to happen just cos you got your hand in his cage. Have you found out what his favourite treat is yet? After you have had your hand in the cage for a while without him freaking out, you could put treats in so he understands it is not a bad thing but a good thing. It might have sounded like I had fast progress with Jo but after that vacation it look atleast a month for him to really accept the hands again. So dont be disouraged
That is funny with your husband

It was my husband that wanted to keep Jo in the first place! We both didnt have ANY experience and we had two dogs so I initially just wanted to take her to a sanctuary but my husband said 'noooo, Ill take care of her'... ya right

I knew he wouldnt and that I would end up doing it including all the research but the bond between me and Jo is so strong now. My husband got a bit jealous I think and just gave up. He will try for five minutes sometimes and just sais ' she doesnt like me'. That secretly makes me smile

thinking 'thats right, Jo is mine, go play with your dog'
That is so funny about the standing on one foot thing

it gives me flashbacks... when I first saw Jo preening I was panicking because I thought she was pulling out all of her feathers and I was gonna end up with a naked bird and she would be cold
Jo doesnt have any problems with loud noises... my dogs can get pretty wild sometimes when they play and sometimes run into Jos cage but she doesnt mind, just continues what she was doing, maybe looking a little annoyed at them.
She is relativly quiet most of the time... the only time she will scream is when she is bored or when she falls... then she screams at us like 'why did you push me?!' even though we werent even close. She doesnt like to admit her own clumsiness... it must be us that push her, she wouldnt fall down by herself...
And yes, we do play videos for Jo every once in a while and Jo loves it. A lot of people have recommended doing this as birds are flock animals. I dont think at all this is bad for them. I too have considered getting another bird exactly for this reason but we dont have the space for it now. Plus I cant imagine not giving Jo all of my attention. I wouldnt get her a mate or anything... usually when you get a mate they will bond to eachother and not to you so when I get another bird it will be something completly different like a cockatiel or a sun conure. You wouldnt be able to just put another bird in the same cage anyway, it could be that Jo wouldnt like the other bird even if its suppose to be a mate. There would have to be slow inttroductions which means there would have to be a seperate cage. But another bird in a second cage would also be considered as a flock member so it would be company for Jo.
Its really great to share these stories with another Rosella owner!! Looking forward to hearing about your progress

