by Polarn » Sun Sep 02, 2012 1:37 pm
I'm going to drop somewhat of a bomb here: there are no pets that should be owned by kids!
Now let me explain, I do think it is enriching for kids to take part of a household with pets in it and the interaction, training to take responsibilities etc etc. however I do not think a pet should ever be given to a kid by a parent or who ever who then say "it's yours and I won't deal with it" we always had pets when I grew up, but these were my parents pets, I took em for walks and one of the dogs shared its bed with me and followed me around all the time, was still my moms dog though and she would take excellent care of it if I decided to ignore it. Birds however has a tendency to bond to a specific person and they expect and deserve a lifelong relationship (I think this should be true for most pets but lets face it, few species live in monagomy). This said if your mum or dad truly wants a bird and you get the opportunity to interact with it I think that could work. But you getting a bird of your own... First off you have to consider the commitment, will you be able to care for it when you go to uni? Could you imagine dating with a bird around? (I know this sounds silly but the bird do affect it, they get jealous, cranky and whatnot). And on a side note is your pain threshold high enough to not raise a biter (especially while talking bigger birds) ask one friend to bite your hand as hard as they can while another punch ya in the tummy... No noise, no pulling back and you might be ready for a sharp little beak with a tremendous force behind it.
Kidding aside: you will bleed, but may not show fear, pain, reaction or noises when it happens. And it's not a question of if, it is when and how frequent.
You will feel lost, happens to all of us, they occationally regress, hold grudges etc and it makes us feel a bit bad. And we have to work through it.
Feel ready to get married already? The lifespan of any bird is longer than the average marriage.
I might consider someone ready to get a bird at the same time they have decided their not gonna have kids or when they've had kids and know the responsibility involved. Owning a bird is like having a 2year old kid around with any letter combination diagnosis that pops into your mind.
And yes there are tons of kids taking excellent care of their birds, but usually with their parents pockets and the birds will make an effect on their social life's unless they decide to start neglecting their bird.