Nir wrote:andromeda. I put my finger near cage maybe 2 times. I am not stupid enough to keep testing her. But if the 2 times i put my fingers near cage was what did it then that sucks.
I of course exaggerated the "gazillion" part. but only on the first day did i try to touch her and after that i have been patient. I never cornered her.
I'm not insinuating that you're stupid. You're now claiming that you didn't "keep testing her" or "corner her" but surely you realize where I would get that idea!
Nir wrote:i was able to step her up after a gazillion bites. (i mean bites where she actually latches on to and presses hard . it drew blood once).
I understand that "a gazillion" is an exaggeration but I took that to mean "a lot" and the fact remains that if you triggered numerous bites to push for a step-up the interaction was forced.
Nir wrote:But i see the point that even doing what i did, i might have increased the behavior.
It's really easy and common for a first-time bird owner (or first-time with a larger bird) to accidentally reinforce biting. The most important thing to know about biting is
avoid the bite in the first place because then there is no possibility for it to be inadvertently reinforced.
Nir wrote:He drew blood the first day (after he slept the night prior after flight). I did probably reinforce it unknowingly.
Well reading your last post you say that you only tried to touch her and get her to step-up on day one and what I was asking was if the very first bite you received was the one that drew blood. "Fear aggression" is a natural response in a bird and a clipped bird will bite if it's afraid. It will bite harder and harder over time as it becomes more distressed or continues to be confronted with the scary object, so I'm trying to understand if the strength of the bite escalated over the course of your interaction.
Still, I'm not ruling out that the bird was mishandled in some way prior to arriving at your place, especially since you say she stands still and bites instead of attempting to retreat. That's telling.
Is she flighted? (I'm guessing not as a flighted bird will try to fly away as opposed to bite).
Nir wrote:since then , the only time i got bit is when i go to change his food and she is near it. or if if i curiously try to "see" if she is is over the fear now lol. But i havent done that much anymore either.
It's a wild animal and if it's afraid of hands it's not just going to "get over" the fear for no reason and testing her is actually just training her to bite. Every time she bites (or tries to bite) and then the hand goes away, that is called reinforcement and behaviors that are reinforced will increase in frequency.
Nir wrote:i am doomed. sigh
Not at all, you're learning what you're doing wrong and what you're doing right and adjusting your behavior accordingly.

janetafloat had a great comment and I was going to agree 100% that you should completely stop everything for now but then you said she RUNS to the targeting stick so it seems she's very excited about that and I don't see a reason to stop targeting with her if it's something she's enjoying. (I just want to make sure here that she's not running to attack the stick out of aggression, though?) I mean if the interaction is fun for both you and the bird and it's conducive to building trust and good behavior you should continue with it.
