Michael wrote:Eurycerus wrote:I have to say having Nika bonded with me is a little problematic. No matter what I do she still gets all hormonal and excited by me sometimes, even just getting near her. She's more aggressive towards other people and can have a difficult time focusing when all she wants to do is make babies with me.
This can be punished out of the parrot to a large extent (but never completely) over time. Basically it's a matter of:
-Not encouraging hormonal behavior
-Encouraging incompatible desirable behavior
-Ignoring hormonal behavior
-Avoiding triggering hormonal behavior
-Negatively punishing attention seeking hormonal behavior by entirely voiding it
-Shake off flighted parrots that come over for hormonal activity to make them realize their advances are useless
It is VERY important not to encourage hormonal behavior such as mating dances and such. People like to watch, laugh, and show it to others but it only encourages the bird to try harder. When it doesn't work, the bird just bites instead. The best strategy I have found for dealing with it is food management, weight management, trick training, extensive exercise, avoiding nutritional surplus, avoiding hormonal triggers, keeping light/temperatures fairly constant, not touching places that trigger, not over petting, dropping any petting/touching the moment hormonal activity begins, taking away my attention when hormonal activity begins. Beyond that, extensive socialization, outings, exposures to mild jealous situations, and just dealing with things as they come.
I have tried a lot of things, except weight management because I haven't purchased a scale yet. Also even if I had one I'd be really afraid of starving my parrot. How do you know what's just right vs what's too much? They're such little animals. Her diet has changed periodically as I learn new things. No fruit, low starchy veggies. What are good treats for a hormonal parrot? Maybe I'm using the wrong type of treat.
She doesn't get much touching except during training and since it's structured it doesn't seem to cause her to be hormonal. Her shift is pretty sudden and random. This morning I was trying to show her where her food was, since I'm trying a new foraging technique and she might not know what to do. She suddenly got all hormonal even though I wasn't touching her or really doing much except pointing to her food. During training she'll be doing fine doing tricks or recall flying and then suddenly decide now's a good time to get hormonal. In her cage, same thing, she'll be doing normal parrot things and then get hormonal towards a toy, any toy really. She gets a little excited for a while, squeaking and such, no masturbation, and then she's done. It's very odd.
I'm considering getting one of those fancy lighting systems and am investigating the right one, but even that could induce hormonal behavior if done improperly.
Another thing is I don't always turn away and completely ignore. Sometimes I'll try to distract her away from it, which can be successful, or continue doing whatever I'm doing. So it's not encouraged but not always discouraged.








