by Wolf » Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:16 am
If you have your brothers permission then there should not be any problems as far as the bird is concerned. The thing to be aware of is that if she bonds to someone else there is no guarantee that she will accept him again.
Now with that out of the way, I am seeing several misconceptions that need to be addressed if this situation is to work for both you and the bird. I will tell you right up front that the sole reason that I am here on the forum is because of the birds. I tell you this because everything that I have to say is to benefit the bird, it will help you to build a positive and trusting bond with the bird.
You have the wonderful privilege of having a Senegal parrot, she may be the nominate species with a yellow vest or she may be one of the two other sub species with either a red vest or an orange vest, but she is a Senegal. Basically you have a full sized parrot in a small body, If she chooses to bond to you she is extremely loyal and as a general rule she is not afraid of anything living, although she may scare easily with new toys or anything else that is not alive. She is highly intelligent and can learn all sorts of tricks and she may or may not elect to talk.
You speak of her as if you were talking about a dog or a cat, but she is nothing like either of these animals in any way. You will discover that if you approach her for bonding or training in the manner that you would approach a dog or cat, that you will have nothing but trouble and this little bird will eat you alive. No parrot has a 'master', they do not follow orders, you can't potty train them as it could kill them, they will not accept another person just because you want them to, they bite and it hurts, a lot. You do not order a parrot to do anything, you ask and even coax, but they do not do orders.
You are a predator, a dog is a predator, and a cat is a predator. Both a cat and a dog are domesticated. You think in a manner very similar to a dog or cat and this is because you, like them, are a predator.
A Parrot is not a predator, they are prey. They are not domesticated, although your bird was bred and raised in captivity, it is still a wild creature. In its natural environment, in its flock, it is equal to any other of its flock mates and it does not follow anyone's orders, it chooses for itself what it is going to do as well as when.
Although you were told that this bird is fully weaned, this is not true. It is weaned as far as the breeder is concerned, but it still needs soft food a couple of times a day, so you will need to get some weaning formula and give it some twice a day for another month, maybe two. It also needs a variety of fruits and vegetables in order to remain healthy, a seed diet will end up destroying its liver. The Senegal will need a larger amount of veggies than fruit. You will find that getting it to eat its veggies is just like trying to get any other two year old child to eat its veggies, so you will have to be patient, persistent and creative.
Your new friend is young, so take your time and make friends with her. You will have to earn her trust and then her love as she will not just bestow it upon you as a dog would. So I recommend that you spend at least 15 minutes two to four times a day just talking with her and gaining her trust, there will be plenty of time for training later on. While it is possible to start training right away, you will reach a point where you will begin to have problems and will have to come right back to the beginning and earn her trust, It is actually the foundation for all that could be in your relationship with her and right now it is by far the most important thing that you can do with her.