Hi,
I've had my bird for many years. He's a rescue and has always been tenuous with physical interaction, but he was always generally friendly with me. I made the mistake of changing several things in a short period of time (some outside of my control) and now I can't determine what has made him so aggressive. Can anyone give any tips?
When I give him his breakfast in the morning, he always sprints towards the food dish and attacks the food in it for a few seconds before settling down and eating. He never used to do that. He also generally acts defensive any time I'm around him - whether he's on his cage or in neutral areas like helping me cook in the kitchen. He'll find a corner to stay in and any move I make towards him gets hisses or he may even try to chase me off.
I used to spend almost all of my days with him but had to take a new job recently so now I only see him a few hours a day. This has been the case for many months. I also flight trained him this past year; previously he didn't fly at all, whereas now he flies comfortably around the house. At first it seemed like he was having fun with flight training, but now it only seems to make him aggressive. He'll fly to me, but instead of taking his treat he'll immediately act like he's holding down a bunker. The past few days it's gotten worse, where he flies at me without being queued and while he doesn't attack me directly, he gets defensive as soon as I set him down on a surface.
It seems like he generally wants to "get me" now almost any time I'm around him and this has been going on for too long to write it off as a phase. It's causing a lot of stress on our relationship as I no longer know how to socialize with him; he almost always acts like he'd rather I not be around.
Two other things I changed around the same time that are probably important:
- I put a ledge in his cage; just a surface for him to hang out on, but over time he made it his new sleeping spot and now he hangs out there all the time.
- I moved his cage to a new location so I could let him look out the window while I was gone. I later concluded that this was a bad idea for a few reasons, but I can't move him back to his old place. The last time I tried he panicked like I'd never seen and I had to towel him just to get him back to his cage - something I've never had to do before.
Did my flight training make him more aggressive? Is he mad because I'm not around as much? Is he "nesting" because of the ledge I gave him? Did putting him in front of the window rile up his territorial instinct?
Any tips would be appreciated. The trend has gone on too long for me to think it will pass, and I don't know what to do. I'm 90% of the social interaction he gets so I can't stand to have him act like I'm an enemy at all times.
Mark





