You are, of course, entitled to your opinion. I am, of course, entitled to believe the opinion of trained experts.
Yes, serving watery foods can help but do you serve them to her all day? Most bird owners that I know of do not. This might serve well for you and that's great, however, we all have different styles. However, you then stated "eats them (pellets) all up and then drinks a lot of water to wet them down in her crop". If you are diligent during the course of the day then that is good for you and Kili but it would be remiss to think that this can and does work for
all bird owners who may not be so diligent. So yes, we can discuss about neglect but we can also discuss the best tools for owners not as diligent as some but none the less do a good job taking care of their birds overall. However, I don't think you can classify it as negligence if a bird owner isn't checking their water bottle 4-5 hours. Yes, that is just long enough to cause a bird to have distress.
I seriously doubt everyone is going to check the water bottle consistently every few hours and ensure that is not clogged. I was told & reassured that using a stainless steel bowl and changing the water is a much safer risk than the bird
not getting water at all. Especially if you keep more than one water dish around at a time. I KNOW I can truly and honestly get a stainless steel cup clean and even run it through the dishwasher. I have seen the Lixit glass water bottles and can see why these veterinarians really do question them despite what you have said.
You obviously can raise and care for Kili in the manner you feel best. However, I don't think it is wise to dismiss information that can give other bird owners the ability to make an informed decision for the care of their little ones. Isn't this what this forum is all about? I, for one, am going to go by the advice of trained veterinary experts who just want to save birds from this kind of fate & who have seen such tragedies. They really are trying to inform bird owners how to avoid them.
For me, it just isn't worth the risk. My parrots are too important and precious to me to be playing water bottle roulette.
