lightweight wrote:I've noticed when she wants to be pet she loosens her wings and lets them hang by her side and chirps to me. When I pet her, her eyes get very dilated and when I stop she starts chirping for more.
Defintively sounds good. Eye pinning can be a good thing with Pois.
I find with my guys, Senegal included, when they don't want to be handled they'll move away and if I insist, they'll give a "warning bite" which isn't really a bite as they don't touch me but it's very clear that if I try to get closer, the warning will become true
So I am guessing this is her good body language although at first the feather dropping scared me a little.
Could you get a picture of the feather dropping? Do her wings go lower? It could be the "skirt dance", which is a mating dance, which is a good and bad - good because it proves she likes you - bad because you don't want to be encouraging this..you aren't the bird's mate after all.
But it would be easier to tell with a picture or video.
I am really afraid of having her step up where my finger is right be her beak (and she is known to lead with it which freaks me out even more...I know the first thing is that she senses my fear but I can't help it and she has still been receptive to me). Is it safe to have her step up in the cage or is that her territory?
Well at least you know that she will respond to your fear. You will have to learn to get over it and be assertive. I know, easier said that done.
As for stepping up from the cage, I actually work on that with my birds. Some people will say not to do so, to let the birds come out when they want, and I normally allow them to come out at their own pace, but I also know that if I wanted to, I could get them to step up from their cages without risking a bite. This is important for me since if there is a fire, I won't have time to wait for them to come out and won't have time chasing them around their cages - if we need to go out as fast as we can, at least I know they'll step up right away and ease the process.
Also what kind of treats do they enjoy? We feed her pellets and then I usually give her raw fruits and veggies daily. I have heard maybe nuts...what would be a good treat for her?
You'll have to see for yourself

Every bird is different so you'll have to try and see.
My Senegal is a pig and will eat anything...