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His bird, her bird

Postby LiaraTivona » Fri Sep 09, 2011 6:17 pm

I hate the idea of pets "belonging" to one person or another, but bonds do form that way sometimes.

A few months before my tamed pet-store :budgie: Tika passed away at 8 years of age, my fiance purchased a :budgie: Momo from a pet store in spite of my cautions because he felt sorry for it. :? (I also warned him never to make a pity purchase due to the ramifications but what can I do)

Now, we have Momo, who is friendly and will occasionally step up but does not seem to identify with humans, either before or after Tika. I can't use the same methods I used to tame Tika because while Tika was a wolf, Momo does not even care for millet spray or other treats. Perhaps we need to work more when he is hungry.

The issue is, I want a bird. I want a bird I can bond with, teach tricks, pet, maybe take places. Momo could possibly become that, but I don't want to start from pet-store variety again. My fiance cares for Momo, but he is more accustomed to dogs, who come pre-disposed to affection. He was fiercely jealous of Tika but won't work with Momo to get to that point.

Lately I have been so bummed out by this that I began to think we should send Momo to the (wonderful) parrot sanctuary so we can start fresh, but that seems like "dumping." On the other hand, I am afraid that even after a month of quarantine, any new bird I get will revert to "feral" when introduced to Momo, since he doesn't really care for humans.

The parakeets at the place I would go are great. I held this one parakeet and asked her to step up as a test to see how tame their birds are, and she got the idea, even as the owner said, "Oh, she's only a baby still." She also liked being pet, which I thought was never true for budgies. I also saw someone in a store with a budgie on her shoulder, which kind of refutes that budgies are no-outings birds.

Anyway, what do you all recommend? Do you have experience introducing a relatively untame bird into a tame bird environment?
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Re: His bird, her bird

Postby liz » Thu Sep 29, 2011 7:15 pm

My opinion.

Momo can be tamed by associating with a tame bird that you can handle. By the time the new bird is out of quarentine you will have bonded with it. Momo will see the interaction and slowly draw closer to you.

My opinion. It has worked for me before.
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