Silentraven wrote:liz wrote:Terri suggested answering him. That might work. If a child calls for you sometimes it is just to know where you are. Answering solves his problem. Your bird might just be wanting to know that you did not disappear while he was sleeping.
the problem with answering him is that if i answer him once, he will want me to answer every time. thus leaving me to be woken up every time, and still getting no sleep. i see your reasoning but it would eventually "inadvertently teach" him TO wake me up... see my issue?
Answering is a bad idea in my opinion, it will just reinforce the screaming.
Despite having a small space, my method is doable, we did it in our old apartment with just 2 rooms. You can still control the light settings, just get better blinds which dont let through any light. IKEA sells them, but make sure you go for the ones with no lightspillage! Then add timers to your lights. It works!





