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Ahahaha you people are enablers, you know that, right?

Well, we went and spent more time with Skeeter yesterday. The gal who was there wasn't sure if he would come out for us, but she saw how taken we were with him and so she gave us some treats and left us alone with him. It took about an hour, but we finally coaxed him to come out. It was both cute and sad, how scared he was! We started by giving him a treat through the bars...then through the door a few times...and then, on his own, he sloooowly, cautiously, clambered out. After a few more treats (and us sitting stock still and not staring at him) he then slowly clambered to the top of his cage and, once there, it was like watching a mountain climber assessing the view from Everest. After a bit, he came down for another treat and then resumed his "I'm on the top of the world" view for several more minutes, while we softly talked at him the entire time. After 15 minutes or so I carefully got up to ask more questions from the shop owner, while my husband interacted further with Skeeter. I inquired about recommended avian vets in our area, her policies/guarantee, more about his history and health, etc. (I asked if he could fly, and she said that she wasn't sure, as his muscles might've atrophied) Meanwhile Skeeter was so relaxed (or overwhelmed) that he stood on one foot and took a siesta. The owner said she was impressed that he'd come out at all. After he woke up and took yet another treat, we had to go. We tried to lure him back into the cage and got him all the way to the door, but of course Skeeter, now having had a taste of freedom, wouldn't hear of it, the poor guy. So the shop owner tried to gently get him to step up on a stick...and he became airborne! He made two full circles in one part of the room, then took off in a straight line for about 60 feet.
"Well, I guess that answers my question if he can fly," I said.
She was then able to get him to perch on her finger after retrieving him from the floor, and place him back into his prison -- I mean, cage.
The Cuteness!Part of me wanted to take him home right then and there, but my husband (who is the most non-impulsive, reasonable person I know) reminded me that we are about to go out of state for the holidays, and so if we put a deposit on the bird we would most likely have to take him as soon as we returned at the beginning of the year -- and the house wouldn't be bird-safe yet, we wouldn't have all the needed equipment, etc. So his thought is we should wait until we get back, then put down the deposit, which could give us a couple extra week's breathing time to get everything ready, to get the bird into the vet, and so on.
So yeah, it's difficult, but I will contact the shop and see what we can work out. It sounds like Skeeter has been there for quite a long time, but there is no guarantee that he won't be sold to someone else while we are away. (It is reassuring that all prospective buyers do go through an interview process and have to sign a contract and take a class, so it's not like a big box pet store where someone would just go OMG he's so cute let's buy him NOW.)
I do see my husband's side of things; it's just a little frustrating to find a bird we both liked so soon in the process, when nothing's ready. I thought it would take weeks, if not months...
Okay, well I gotta start getting the house ready. Thanks everyone for your support.
--Weka