Since my bird flew away and recaptured, I start to think about our relationship with our bird.
Everyone said if we let our pet bird lose outside in the open air, they will soon or later fly away even we have a very strong bond with our bird. yes, many heartbroken stories have proved that.
However, when I lived in China many years ago. I experience complete different stories. When I was a kind, I hand feed a baby sparrow, he bond with me, he free fly inside and outside my house. He spend half a day outside alone and come back. he sit on the roof, on the tree, fly through open windows. He likes a dog. he even didn't have a cage. As a kind, I didn't learn how to train a bird, I gave him food and love. I didn't realize he can fly away and he never flew away.
another story about a magpie. I lived in an apartment in a five floor building in China about 20 years ago. My friend who live in third floor hand feed a baby magpie. The bird get all his freedom, he fly everywhere, form building to building, tree to tree. he even play with other wild magpies. he was completely free and independent. The bird become my friend as well, he visited me several time a week during the summer , he flew into my room through the window, I give him food or toy to play, he flew away and come back next day. some nights,he even sleep in my room, so I need to tell my friend that the bird was with me. I am sure he can never get loss and he trust all the people.
but he shouldn't. At end of the summer, he disappeared for one week, then come back with many missing toes and his beak was broken. some evil man captured him and hurt him. but he manage to escape and flew back home. sadly, he died next day.
So I why we can't have same relation with our parrot? two different creatures, complete independent,best friends. bird can leave his human friend whenever he want. but friendship keep him come back. I believe some where in this world, the kind of relationship is still existing.






