He is definitely a he - Barney was DNA sexed last week, and when I take him home the breeder will give me a certificate with his hatch date and results of DNA sexing.
I have some experience with keeping parrots, but absolutely none with hand rearing a baby. It's a risk that I just wouldn't be willing to take. I hope to learn one day, but as of now I have no idea how to ensure that the formula wouldn't be too hot/cold, how to make sure he's eaten enough, but not overfeeding - keeping where the chick's enclosure thing(?) the correct temperature (he's still too little to go to a cage just yet). The repercussions of getting it wrong would invariably result in death. I appreciate the words of encouragement but it (as said before) is just not a risk I'm willing to take.
The breeder I am getting him from is a lecturer in animal health, currently completing a PhD, and has been breeding various parrots for the last 8 years (and she learnt to care for her first cockatiel from her husband who is also an avid aviculturalist). I cannot come close to comparing with someone who has that level of expertise, and I wouldn't want to try. If nothing else, this breeder does not allow any of her baby cockatiels to go to a home until they are fully weaned, and when that occurs is anywhere between 8 - 10 weeks of age (sometimes longer) since she allows the birds to wean themselves at their own pace. I wouldn't want her to raise them any other way. I want this little guy to be my companion for the next 20 plus years, and for that he needs the best care from the start. I believe I can provide that standard of care when he is weaned, but until he IS weaned, he couldn't be in a better place.
If that means that he doesn't learn to talk quite as well, or that I need to work twice as hard to get him to bond with me instead of the breeder, then so be it. It's best for his health and long term happiness.
