by Pajarita » Wed Jan 01, 2014 9:45 am
It's way too soon for you to expect him to trust you or for you to even be handling him. Parrots are not dogs, they are not domesticated and have not been bred for hundreds of generations to depend or even like humans so you need to gain his trust and love as well as allow him to feel secure and comfortable in his new home - would you be nice to a giant alien that took you from everything you know and then insisted on playing with you from day one? No, of course not! You would try to get away from him and, if he forced you, you would hit/scratch/kick/bite him! Parrots usually need about two weeks to begin to feel comfortable in their new home so leave him alone, open his cage and allow him to come out on his own, don't ask him to step up on you or a stick, just keep him company -you can sit at the computer, watch TV, clean, read, etc, just keep on talking to him, offer him a treat every now and then, etc. Also, he needs to be on a routine so he should come out pretty much at the same time every day (always better right after they finish their breakfast which should be served when the sun is rising) and always allow him to rest at noon, a bit more interaction in the afternoon, dinner with sunset and then to bed. This schedule is the one wild birds follow and it's always easiest on them as well as healthiest in the long term.
Then, once you see he is comfortable (he will try to get closer to you, follow you with his eyes, pay attention to what you are saying, etc), you can start training him. Don't rush things, it's counterproductive in the long run.