by Wolf » Thu Jun 19, 2014 8:32 am
Hi and welcome to the forum, I hope that you enjoy your stay.
Based on your post I am assuming that this is your first bird and that you don't have a lot of experience with parrots. Please feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
I hope that you are not feeding an all seed diet and that you are trying to get him to eat his fruits and veggies. I also hope that he doesn't have to rely on pellets too much. I would think that millet should make a good treat for him.
I recommend the introduce myself and lets sit down and talk and get to know each other method.
When you go into the room where he is start to watch him, don't just stare at him, kind of watch him from the corner of your eye. Look for him to start to move away from you as you approach his cage. As soon as he does stop and do not go any closer. You will need to do this step every time you have one of these sessions until you are able to come all the way to his cage without him moving away or getting nervous. From this point just talk to him in a calm tone of voice. It really doesn't matter what to talk about to him, but I recommend that you begin using terms that you will use to praise him for being a good boy, to tell him that you love him. I also recommend that you just ramble on for about 15 minutes each session, telling all about your hopes for the two of you, things that you want to be able to do with him and things of this nature. You can also tell him all about your day, talk to him just as if he were your very best friend. Do this at least 2 or 3 times each day. In a relatively short time you will be right at the cage, at which time you can introduce treats to these conversations. Just talk to him as usual and offer him an occasional treat through the bars of his cage. He will begin to look forward to the treats as much as to your time together. When he starts coming to you for the treat and takes it from your fingers you start doing this with you sitting in front of his open cage with your hand resting in the doorway. As you progress he will come to your hand to get the treat and then he will start stepping up onto your hand for the treat.
From here you can move on to target training and on from there. I use this method because it earns the birds trust, it puts him at ease while showing him that you will not hurt him and lets him choose how fast you progress and he never feels pressured. I deal exclusively with birds that come from bad situations where they were abused and/ or neglected and I have found no better way to earn their trust so that they can begin to heal from the psychological and emotional injuries inflicted upon them.
I hope that this will prove to be useful to you and your friend (bird).