patti wrote:I just went through something similar with my new bird (jenday conure) who was not doing well when i first got her and i didn't know why. there were two things that worked better than anything else.
1. every necessity (food, sleep, etc)... every activity, actually, is a social activity
2. the bird is really the boss, for now, of everything even though you are still the parent. s/he will let you know when the stress is starting to break....
Point 1 - YES!!!! You are absolutely correct, EVERYTHING in a parrot's life is a social activity - that's why it's so bad to leave them alone for hours and hours. It does something to their heads...
Point 2 - If you took out the 'for now', you would be 100% right because birds are always 'the boss'. But I don't agree that they let you know when they are stressed out... actually, by the time you see anything, the bird has been under stress for a long time.





