by mikella » Mon Jun 22, 2015 9:45 am
Thanks for the replies.
Liz, I appreciate your comment so much... I'm not writing in here looking for praise, but the acknowledgment means a lot to me - acknowledgment that I really am trying to do what is best for him. Because I really am, every day.
Wolf, actually what I meant was - am I correct in assuming that it is the shortening days that triggers the decrease in hormones? Also, yes, certainly a good thing that he isn't drawing blood. Or at least it's not often that he does.
I've been feeling pretty awful so haven't been writing and will make this quick, but here is what has been going on for those interested... His aggression towards my husband decreased starting day three and he is still absolutely his number one love. Still obsessed with him. My husband's trust in him is getting closer to where it had been. Should mention, the attacks were when I wasn't even around, so had nothing to do with my presence.
NOW, Quigley is doing pretty darn good..... He's currently in my shirt munching the single biggest hole he's ever made. Usually he makes hundreds of little holes. This one is a bit bigger than an inch around. He's happily working away at it. His back is right against my chest. I don't have the heart to stop him haha
He is being (again, overall) pretty darn nice to me..... I have to watch myself, but really, I'm pretty pleased... Still no shoulder, but that time will come. Hopefully soon! That would be life changing.
I've caught him shredding his toys a couple times for a second... Which I think is good too, and a major development for him.
We've been going outside every nice day. He's not so much a fan, but it's important I know. Really, the only reason he's not content out there is because he's in a little cage and can't be on me/us. I will get him a harness to use for this reason eventually. I can't IMAGINE getting him in a harness at this point. But eventually. That would be great.
My parents stopped by the other day and he was beside himself excited to have more people around. Even hopped on my mom's shoulder when my hand was too close to her. I only left him there for a few seconds, with my hand between her face and him. But that was pretty nice to see.
Also, he decided he now loves puréed fruits and veggies, so until he starts eating them whole, I've been puréeing different assortments and freezing it in an ice cube tray and he's been having that every day.
Be back soon.