by Pajarita » Wed Apr 22, 2015 9:46 am
Wolf is correct. Basically, ALL babies, handfed or not, are cuddly and affectionate and this is most especially true of altricial species -with parrots been super altricial. But, handfed or not, once an aviary bird reaches sexual maturity, his interest in a human will wane significantly and will want to be with other birds of its own species (and this is why they are called 'aviary' and not 'companion' species). This doesn't mean that the bird will start attacking you, it will still hold trust and affection for you but it does mean it will become aloof and will not allow to be touched much (ergo, no cuddliness at all).
When a breeder tells you something, you need to do your own research and see if this is really 100% true because breeders are not bird lovers, they are giving you their pet bird for free, they are merchants and birds are their merchandise and, like any other merchant, they will 'adorn' the truth about how good is their merchandise in order to sell it.
Wolf is also right in that you would do much better with a rescue bird because, when you get a baby and have no experience, you could make a mistake that would mess up the whole relationship forever as well as choose one that will not grow up to be what you want. You are better off getting an adult bird (what you see is what you get because it already went through puberty) that has been evaluated by somebody with more experience and can tell you whether the bird is cuddly and has the capacity to like several people at the same time.