by Pajarita » Thu Apr 21, 2016 11:06 am
Welcome to the forum. Parrots are highly social animals, they are born, live and die always surrounded by the same large extended family. It's the way nature made them and, for them to be really happy and healthy, they need to have other parrots around. You are VERY lucky that you were able to acquire two clutch siblings, I wish each of my birds had a bonded companion, it enriches their lives in ways that we, humans, can never hope to achieve.
You can establish an excellent relationship with both your birds, it will take time and effort but you would have to put the same time and effort with a single bird so I really don't see what the problem is... You are now a complete stranger to them (it takes months for a bird to trust a human 100% and bond and you've had them for just a few days) so of course they are going to want to stick together when you separate them! As far as parrots go, there is safety in numbers and in the familiar... they have been together since birth while they don't know you from Adam so their reaction is perfectly understandable. And yours are babies and that makes them more insecure. Parrots are not dogs, they are not programmed by nature to like, love or obey us, we have to earn their love with patience, consistency and love.