It's tough when the parrot and the spouse don't hit it off.
My grey prefers my husband...who just tolerates all the birds. To his credit, he has tried to bond with her, but she's also not an 'easy' bird, so he'd rather not deal with her outside of saying 'hello' and talking with her. Luckily she's okay with me, esp. if he's gone (and he also travels a great deal).
I have no suggestions for you...I hope your neighbour's don't mind the noise. Mine 3 larger birds can create quite a racket, but I actually don't mind it...I rather enjoy it, er, as long as I'm not on the phone...(then I sometimes have to go hide in the back bathroom with all the doors in between shut...

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I'm very glad you're giving Clover so much to do! Sounds lovely!
Every parrot has a duty: To reduce the world to toothpicks.