by Wolf » Fri Aug 29, 2014 11:29 am
The shoulder thing has absolutely nothing to do with dominance, and I really don't know where you came up with this idea. Parrot do not live in a dominance based society, they live in a flock whose social structure is based on each bird being equal to any other bird in the flock. There is no alpha male or female telling the others how to behave or how to act or what to do. You and I are predators and such a social structure is normal to us, mostly, but does not work with parrots.
Natalie;
I noticed that your Grey has a band on his leg, look on it as it may have a date on it, these bands can only be placed on the bird at a certain age. If the bird is too young the band will come off and if the bird is too old they can't be put on. There should also be a number , letter or something that indicated who the breeder is.
Greys are very needy birds and your bird will want to spend all or nearly all of his time with you, the reason for this at his age is that you are now his parent and he looks to you for everything from food and water and how to best get it to how he should behave. Also they are never alone in their natural habitat from the time they hatch till the day they die.
He is a nice looking bird and I wish nothing but the best for you and Drake, If I can help in any way let me know.