by Pajarita » Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:39 am
John, if I were you, I would not wait for any particular behavior from him before I take him home - and, most especially, I would not wait for a behavior that is based on trust. Grays are difficult birds. They are naturally high-strung and distrustful, and they seem to require more than other species to trust their human 100% before they even start to warm up to them - but that is not something that comes easy to them even under the best of circumstances (remember that these are highly intelligent birds for whom not belonging is real hardship). Sometimes, you get lucky and they see something in you that maybe reminds them of a person they loved in the past and they love you at first sight but, although this does happen (it happened to Wolf with Kookooloo and it happened to me with Sophie) it's actually not common. Most of them take their own sweet time and, when they are in a rescue, been cared for by different people, it's not likely to happen (it's all that stress). But it doesn't mean it won't happen once he is in your home and he realizes this is his new home. If you are worried about taking him to the vet, just do it on your way home when you adopt him - that way, the stress is only once and once this is over, he can begin to relax in his new home. I bet you he will be a completely different bird once this happens!