by Wolf » Sun Dec 04, 2016 9:08 am
I really do not like having to respond like this on the forum, but feel that I have been more or less forced to do so two other times very recently. One of the reasons that I do not like responding in this manner is that it is too easy to give the impression that I am taking side in favor of one or the other which is not my intent. You, Brandon, have been heavily involved in both of the other two times that I recently had to respond to an argument on the forum and here we are yet again. I really want you to think about this chain of events as well as what I am about to say.
When you post a topic wondering why something is being said, you are actually asking why someone is saying the thing that you are wondering about, but I think that you already knew that and this whole topic of yours has been directed at Pajarita from the start as you said when you posted that the reason for this post was that she had said that TOPS was the only pellet that she liked or recommended. The truth is that she never said that she actually liked any pellet, only that TOPS was the only one that she recommended if one has to feed pellets.
The majority of the replies to your topic have been trying to figure out either which pellets were being referred to other than TOPS, or in trying to answer what they perceived your questions were about. You have denied any questions and have kept going after Pajarita for her attempts to give you answers based entirely upon the things that you were saying.
If it appears that she is becoming a bit condescending with her answers, it is because of your own actions and even denying the very things that you posted. She has been trying to give you the answers that you are asking for but then you reject every answer that she gives. It is no wonder that she is getting frustrated with you.
I think that it is time for you to stop this, If you have an actual question then think about it, write it down on paper, so that you can clarify it and then ask your question and accept the answers that you receive. Or just drop this whole thing. It does not endear you to anyone, it does not show you as being a mature individual, on the contrary it puts forth the idea that you are an immature 16 year old that is just playing some dumb game. Put an end to this one way or the other, and while you are at it review the forum rules starting with rule #1 which speaks about maturity.