I ask, why doesn't she feel like being ridden? Is it an unpleasant experience for her? Sure, some horses do learn to take advantage, but in a lot of cases there is a physical issue underlying the behavioral one.
The vet was just out. Other than being fat, I don't know why. I ride bareback with a bareback pad, so it's not saddle fit. She bucks, I lunge, we ride.
Ok, I misspoke. The lead line doesn't actually touch the horse. It's tossed in their face until the horse backs off.little "smacks" with the lead line (you know what I mean - the tossing it in their face until they get a clue).
I'm not at all experienced with horses. But what I'm doing is working for me with two arabs that didn't have a stop setting. Apparently I'm asking in a way they accept. I think their big thing was getting the twisted wire snaffle out of their mouths."ask, Ask, TELL!". I think smacking with the lead line is definitely a TELL. IMO, you are missing the "ask" in a lot of the scenarios you describe. A quiet type of horse may take that and deal with it, but if you put too much pressure on a younger, hotter horse, you may find it does not work nearly so well.
Well, he's a pushy domineering arab. I was standing next to him with him in a leading position. He turned his head hard into me and then tossed it against me. I equate this to having the bird on your hand as you're walking to the next room and it reaches down and bites you for no apparent reason. I don't allow either behavior. With the horses I have put myself in the position to get whacked by a turning head by accident. No one gets punished then, it's my fault.How did this happen? Why was his head where it could whack you? IMO this is a bit like a preventable bite from a bird, it is way better to prevent the situation than to consider punishment. IME you have to be very careful if you consider using a physical blow to discipline a horse around the head. Many will miss the point and become head shy instead, and if you don't respond within about 3 seconds, they definitely won't make the connection, so you have to be quick. Way better not to get into that position in the first place.
The prior owner played pony express with the arabs. They only had a bolt setting. The didn't trust much. I learned the one-rein stop for my safety while I was reconditioning them to not act like racehorses. I've pretty much desensitized the arabs to many things. The only one I worry about in terms of "exploding" is the quarter mare. She's not as experienced as they are and so I am more sensitive to her limits. She also seems lazy and is quick to explode when we work.A trained response to the one-rein stop is a great emergency brake, but it is very dangerous at speed and can cause a fall. Being aware of how much pressure a horse can take is very important, but it is also the case that if the horse TRUSTS your leadership and is paying attention to YOU a spook resulting in a bolt is pretty unlikely.
So how do I send them away and invite them in when I haven't been able to capture them in the first place? Don't know what a bolter that's trying to get out of work looks like.run off to evade capture - make them run until well past their desire to run, and make them run a little longer. This can work, although I think sending them away and then inviting them in again is more effective than running them off their feet. Conversely, with a bolter than does it to get out of work, doing this from the saddle can be quite effective.
I'm not a good enough rider to get rid of the bucking this way. She'll get me off and then she'll know she can over and over and over again. What would getting off and lunging be?Extinction -- ignoring something and waiting for it to go away. Actually, this is very commonly used with bucking. You just keep the head up, keep going, and ignore it.
True, you should not expect immediate results for most things. I can't agree with "it takes as long as it takes" when we're dealing with safety. A horse can kill you. A bird can't kill you, but it can seriously maim you. You indicated a very real concern for your husband's eye. I suffered temporary nerve damage from an eclectus bite. I didn't know it was going to be temporary at the time. When it happened I was pretty distressed that I couldn't feel three fingers on my right hand since at the time I had an office job that entailed a lot of typing. I've seen people with earlobes and nose tips taken off by parrots.A popular trainer has a couple of things he says that I like even though he's a coffee table book kind of guy. One is "It takes as long as it takes" -- you can't always expect to get the result you need immediately.





