by Grey_Moon » Fri Feb 03, 2012 11:25 am
I speak from painful experience...I'd really urge you, if you go through with another bird at all, to *please* *please* consider another tiel or perhaps a linnie or budgie. Tiels are the fragile pacifists of the bird world and are the first to be bullied, bitten and stressed in a mixed-species situation.
Even the other similarly szed birds like conures and quakers are much more sturdy and aggressive and I know first hand the pain and sadness of living with a bird desperately trying to kill my tiel and harassing the poor little guy so much he was screaming, neurotic and nervous. Not only that but the constant stress made him ill often as well.
Ultimately I rehomed him, and having to walk out of the rescue hearing him screaming and calling for me was one of the hardest things I had to do. He's happy now, living with a retired couple who spoils him, but still to think he spent 5 years like he did with me and ultimately had to leave me and all he'd ever known makes me really sad. He was a wonderful companion and I miss him everyday and often think of what 'could' have been if not for my grey and the cirumstances.
Please consider this, your present bird's situation and feelings, before you make the choice for yourself to add another bird, for ultimately, yourself. I don't mean that offensively, but if you've had the one bird for a long time, its pretty certain he doesn't want to share. And if you have to split out-time the relationship isnt quite as special as having your one bird who's always with you.
At least, that's been my experience. Just as food for thought, why would you want another bird? If it's because your relationship with your tiel isnt quite what you want...then work on it. For something that looks different...again, really think if thats the right reason.

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Jacko (13 year old TAG rescue and my little turkey-bird girl

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"Love me, Love my parrots"