pennyandrocky wrote:isolation from other people is the biggest challange for me. i hate to leave my birds and people don't feel comfortable in my house with 2 birds flying around. i've been asked to put them in their cage but i tell them cages are only for sleeping.unless they have their own birds they don't understand what i get from mine.
Agree with this, people who don't keep birds generally dont understand why I do- even the cat and dog lovers seem to have the "but its a bird" attitude.
Other than that I think the biggest challenge for me is when they are sick and you have no clue what is wrong. They are my children to me but cannot point to or say what hurts like a child can, they cant say how long for, if its been getting worse or what sort of pain it is

Harlie is another biggest challenge, I'm pretty experienced with taming birds but I can safely say she is most difficult finiky bird I have ever met, she is not nasty in any way whatsoever but one day she wont come near you and the next she will happily fly over and sit with you. Some days she will allow you to lure her with treats, other days she is terrified and wont come near no matter how hungry she is. It doesnt seem to matter how consistant I am, my clothes, haircut, voice, actions remain the same, I will get a different reaction every time. When we first got her it was definitely a case of 1 step forward and 10 back, 5/6 years on she is a bit better, progress is still very very slow, if I try to push her too hard she will back right off again but its more a case of a few steps forwards and 1 or 2 back now. I sometimes think she is playing me but sometimes you can just see fear and suspicion in her eyes, I'm convinced she remembers everything that happened in her past
