by patti » Sat Feb 28, 2015 11:08 pm
i work full time and i have had a jenday since july, but 2/3 of my work is from home which makes it work. i was sure that i could give her the 1-2 hours attention plus 4+ hours outside the cage each day that they "need". immediately, though, i found that this was not enough. this is not the minimum the bird needs to be happy. to be happy, she needs to be with me every single waking moment of every day. when i leave to buy groceries, even, she is upset even though she gets over it very quickly. and i live next to the grocery store.
today i was gone for six hours. she has gotten used to the schedule a bit and knew what was coming... she refused to go in her cage because sheknew i was going to leave. when i got home and opened her cage, she climbed up on top of it, ran to the back, and screamed at me for three minutes - putting her whole body into it. her pain was palpable - she felt abandoned and wanted to let me know. i do this to her only once a week (from 8-2 on sat). i couldn't imagine doing it five days a week. that kind of stress builds up and then becomes permanent, and i couldn't do that to her. its bad enough being stuck in a cage.
armed with this new information, i am working ensuring that the quality time i have with her now i can keep. i found that interaction is more important to her in the morning hours, so i switched to a night scheudule for my away-from-home activities. she doesn't seem to mind putting herself to bed in her little happy hut. also, no matter how much time i spend with her or how long the days are, she cannot handle more than 4 hours alone without getting really ruffled. so i leave for four hours or less. basically, i have been learning from her what she needs and then arranging to give that to her.