by Wolf » Tue Dec 01, 2015 9:00 am
While I do not agree with your take on this, you are welcome to your opinion, especially since it was insisted on being put here by those who would not wait to discuss it in a more appropriate setting. And I did indeed say that everyone was acting like spoiled brats, perhaps that is not politically correct, but that does not make it any less true.
All of the people involved other than Marie83 have used human studies to back their statements on this as well as many other topics. Since there is no evidence that I have found that remotely suggests that parrots have an allergy to wheat, I really fail to see why it was even brought up in the first place. All of these things are truly moot points.
The simple truth in this particular instance is that we have three people debating two different ways of trying to do right in supplying good nutrition to their birds and both sharing what they know. Both of these ways have their merits and both have their drawbacks and whether Pajarita's link was or was not tasteless is not the point, what is the point is that the one side chooses to be offended and wants to win this debate by having me to shut the other side up through censorship, which is just not going to happen. Both methods are good and both methods have their place in the area of providing good nutrition and that is what I want them to see, that none of this petty bickering is the right way to approach this, none of this is called for. There is a better way.
Yes, I am the moderator and all of this will be brought to the owner of the forum, Michael, for his take on this and whatever he decides is to be done about it will be done. But my purpose is to bring this bickering to an end and not to practice censorship because someone disagrees with someone else. I am sorry for a great many things regarding this, beginning with the fact that as soon as this started I asked the parties involved to PM me directly and to not continue this on the open forum, where it has no place, but no one listened . I am sorry that I accepted their decision to carry this further on the open forum, I am sorry that I feel like everyone is acting like spoiled brats and insisting that they have the only true and correct way of dealing with parrot nutrition. I am sorry that Leanna has this condition and that she feels attacked, but the truth is that no one knew of this when this started so no one could have been attacking her about this. I am sorry that I gave voice that I feel that we are acting out like spoiled brats and that I don't know of a more appropriate way to put it. Yes, I may very well be the worst of the bunch because of my spoiled brat comment, but I will not defend it, nor will I detract it as I know of no better way of putting it. I also will simply not engage in censorship. Thus the only real solution is for everyone to back up into their respective corners, take a good hard look at this, accept that they are all right and they are all wrong, then to come back out and admit to the error of turning this into something that should never have been and either talk about it like adults or drop the matter entirely and get back onto the business at hand, Parrots and their well being.
Now with that being said, if anyone has more to say about this then unless you wish to comment about the way that I am handling this save it for when the PM function is back up and we can get together with Michael. I have already let him know about the PM issue and as soon as it is repaired I will bring this to his attention and do what ever he requests me to do about this. And since it appears that very shortly I will be accused of favoritism, I will also request that Michael add at least one maybe two other moderators.
That is the last thing that I have to say until such time as I can discuss this with Michael.