by Pajarita » Tue Feb 18, 2020 9:32 am
Yes, grays are VERY picky and quite stubborn about their diets so it takes a lot of finagling and patience to bring them to a healthy diet but, if you do it right and keep at it, it happens. The gray I have now, Sophie CAG, ate crap before she came to me. And I do mean CRAP! Popcorn, pieces of bread and seeds and more seeds. But she now eats a nice range of veggies and fruits as well as her gloop. There are tricks you can use. The 'parrots sees, parrot does' is one of them which, combined with the 'I want what YOU have' is actually quite effective so, yes, do tell Mr. Prim to eat fruit in the morning with her on his shoulder and see what happens. Mind you, he should not even offer her a piece of his fruits, he should eat it making yummy noises - there must be a phrase, a word or a sound you make when you put her food out so tell him to use it - and, if you don't have any kind of 'food mantra', start using one. Parrots are very altricial birds that are born not only completely defenseless (naked, blind and not able to move by themselves) but also with zero knowledge of what they are supposed to eat so they learn from their parents and flock-mates - as we become the parents (when we get babies) or flock-mates when they are adults, our eating something that we have (through a word, phrase or sound) identified as 'good food', assures them that it's OK to eat it - or, at least, try it. Like I said, it will take time and you will waste a lot of food but the food waste is normal with parrots... more than half of it ends up on the floor. It's actually a wild 'pre-programmed' behavior and part of their ecological niche (they feed ground species and spread seeds - we have studies that prove this).
Another trick which is very important is the timing. You need to give her only enough protein food for dinner that would fill up her crop and a teeny tiny extra and, either super early in the morning (when it's still too dark for them to eat) or late at night (after the bird falls asleep), take the protein food away so, in the morning, the bird will be good and hungry (no better sauce than hunger!). So, take away the protein food and tell Mr. Prim to wait about one hour after there is enough light in the sky for her to eat and then eat the fruit with her on his shoulder without feeding her anything else. And, for the gloop, you need to use 'tough love', put it there in the morning and do not give her any protein food until the evening - even if it doesn't eat any of it (which it won't for the first two or three days). It won't starve because there is food available and it's still getting dinner.
Then you have personal preference but, as this bird does not eat enough of a range now to actually determine what it is that it would like best, you can try what I have found my gray likes best and this is crunchy (as in the very heart of the romaine lettuce and the stalks of greens like Swiss Chard, celery, Bok Choy, etc). Then you have shapes that seem to be attractive to them, like Brussels sprouts (they like to hold them in their hands and tear them slowly to shreds) and, when it comes to fruits, they like juicy (like oranges, cantaloupe, pears, grapes, blackberries). And last but not least, there is the universal favorites: apples and corn on the cob (they ALL love corn on the cob very lightly cooked so it's still crunchy and juicy when they bite into the kernels).
Start her on a simple grain gloop (with just large grains like Kamut, Spelt, oat groats, etc) cooked very lightly (15-20 minutes of simmering) and mix this with a sprinkle of seeds (not sunflowers, little grass seeds like a budgie seed mix would have) at the beginning (this not only entices them to the food but also helps them make the connection that the grains are food, just like the seeds).
The two hours of twilight are very important because, without the exposure to dawn and dusk, you don't really have a solar schedule even if you cover the cage at night. See, the thing is that it is this special light that ONLY happens during twilight that turns on or off their 'internal clock'. It's like a stop watch. It turns on with the light of dawn, runs all day and then turns off with the light of dusk - and the number of hours in between these two events is what is registered by their glands as the length of the day. This 'feeds' into what is called the point of photorefractoriness which is what evolution determined when the body should start or stop producing sexual hormones so the species would only breed when all conditions are best for reproducing. When you don't expose them to this light and/or when you vary the length of the days from weekday to weekend or whatever, their bodies become confused. Research avian photoperiodism, avian reproductive system and avian endocrine system and you will see what I mean.
And yes, avian vets always recommend pellets... even the ones that never had birds or never studied parrot nutrition (there is no parrot nutrition chapter on avian medicine books and, even if there was, in order for it to be complete, they would have to list all the different species we keep as companions -which would not be practical at all). Sheesh, I had an avian vet recommend pellets for canaries which are not only natural seed eaters, they have been domesticated and bred by humans since the 1400's so we know most everything we need to know about them and their needs! Ridiculous! I had bad, mediocre and good avian vets and the best ones, who had kept multiple parrots of their own for years, admitted to me that the only reason why they recommend them is not that they think it's the best dietary option for them but because they do not trust people to feed them right - which I found to be very condescending of them, to be honest. If you think about it, a super dry (parrots diets are 85 to 95% moisture, pellets are max 10% and they never drink enough water to compensate for it -they are prey animals so they are strictly crepuscular feeders) processed food (parrots eat a all raw food diet in the wild), dead (no phytonutrients whatsoever because of the processing), that has lab-made vitamins added to it (instead of natural, food-derived ones) couldn't possibly be the best dietary option for them.
Oh, one more thing. You can tell if you have a male or a female. Look at the wing tips when the bird is perching, if the tips reach the end of the tail, it's a female, if they are shorter, it's a male.