patdbunny wrote:Sometimes it's not about laziness - get stuck in traffic, unforseen blizzard that gets you stuck out of the house, car accident, call at work that your spouse got in a car accident, other acts of God. Children are generally not locked in a cage and can access another human to take care of them pending the parent getting to them.
While not leaving food vs leaving food in cage can shift the circumstances by a day or two (depending how much excess is left during free feed), the same risks exist. If the owner can't make it home for a week, the bird is pretty screwed either way. Even with food management if the owner or someone else is alerted to come feed within 24-48 hours the parrot will be ok (severity of outcome will vary by species but even a budgie can go a few days without food). I'm not sure how many extra days worth of free feed people leave when free feeding but I doubt anything more than an extra 24-48 hours. The water will be going bad either way. So I think the problem is the same in either case but the timeline is the only thing that is different.
Of course I don't think anyone wants their birds to starve because they make it home late or the next day but (unless using extreme cases of food management) it would not be catastrophic. As a food manager, I am always concerned about this and have rushed to come home many times where I may have opted to stay out longer knowing that they need to be fed. I've never had a problem. And like I said, if I know I could be late a certain day, I may as well free feed them cause they won't get to come out anyway.
patdbunny wrote:I want to see the studies on the correlation here. Several people, including people with flighted birds, have said they free feed and don't have behavior problems.
Those people typically have bird rooms or aviaries. They are really lucky because they can let their parrots do practically anything they like because the area is modified completely to their needs. What about people who have parrots out in the same living area?
patdbunny wrote:I really don't criticize or have any problems with the way he chooses to keep his birds. We all are learning, continuing to learn and making the decisions for our own birds that we feel are best for our birds; and that includes Michael, which is his right to do.
And I respect everyone else's right to disagree. I have not attacked, insulted, or abused moderator power against anyone who spoke against me. I just feel that I'm not getting any logical arguments from the other side but generally personal attacks. I respect much more the people who took the time to outline their reasons than to just state an unsubstantiated fight against me.
patdbunny wrote:Just what's up with repeatedly saying people are "lazy".
I question if it's the extra effort involved in managing food rather than filling a bowl once a day that is preventing people from doing it. I'm not necessarily saying it has to be that, but when people tell me they are against food management without explaining their reasons it makes me wonder.
patdbunny wrote:I didn't jump up and post and call him irresponsible, lazy, selfish, etc., etc., etc. for letting the two of them interact when they have hurt each other and dislike each other even though that's how I feel about it.
I am still having a very tough time deciding what to do about this. It's one of my biggest concerns and things I'm split on. One one hand a bit of fighting can be expected but where to draw the line as too much is hard to decide. The biggest thing keeping me from keeping them apart is that I'm afraid it will only increase aggression between them if they ever do come in contact and that it would prevent further attempts at bringing them together. My vet pretty much agreed with me on this and did not suggest not keeping them together anymore since the puncture bite. Of course if it gets any worse I'll have no choice but I'm still hoping that by training them side by side, limiting territorial aggression, and taking them out together more they'll work it out.
It would be no harder for me to alternate them as having them together in the short term. But in the long term I'd prefer they be able to get along regardless of where I live so I believe it is important to make a best effort to avoid separating them and making it impossible for them to ever be near each other. I don't use heavy food management to prevent them from getting resource competitive. They only eat independently in their own cages or get rewarded with treats simultaneously. I totally appreciate suggestions for solving this without having to keep them apart physically.