Hi everyone, I'm new here and hope you all can help me. My little guy is Kane,

he's a 9 month old cocckatiel that I've had for 3 months. 2 weeks ago he woke up with a dark green mucusy dropping hanging from his backside and was shivering. I knew he was sick and took him to a vet, not board certified (the closest is 4 hours away), that took him in overnight and gave him X-rays, blood work, and an iv and antibiotics. He didn't perform the specific test for it because i had expressed a concern about the bill that still turned out to be about $400, but said he thought he had parrot fever (psittacosis) and gave him a weeks worth of baytril and sent him home. He also told me to kep him warmer because we had kept him at about 65-70 degrees. Sine then I bought a thermometer and have kept him at about 80-85. He was doing fine but still shivering which I read was a side effect of the supposed illness. So I called his vet back and asked if he thought he should be treated for the full 45 days recommended in the literature I've been reading and he said yes. So I got more meds and that leads me to my problem. The past couple days he won't eat much, he was eating his pellet/grain/seed mix and fresh veggies and fruits but now hes barely eating his pellet mix...he is very aggravated by having to be toweled and given meds twice a day. I'm not perfect at it and it's made his head sticky in some spots. I've tried to wipe them off but he fights me all the time so it's almost impossible to get his meds in let alone clean him up ( he's drawn blood). My questions are:
1) if he doesn't have parrot fever can the meds make him sick and not want to eat? Should I take him in for the test or just keep giving him his meds?
2) I know birds are emotional and will stop eating if they're upset, is it possible that he's not eating because he's staying in his cage and not hanging out on my shoulder? I feel so bad, we were just starting to get close when he got sick, now he tries to bite me all the time.
3)I know humans can get the illness but can dogs and cats? The vet just said keep them apart and they'll be fine but my dogs now have a little sneezing going on.
I know there were things I could have done better in caring for him but in all honesty I'm doing the best I can. My husband bought him for me as a gift and no one warned him about how hard it is to care for a bird in the right way. I'm learning. If you guys have any advice on how to care for Kane through this crisis I would be so happy to hear it! I love him and dispite the fact that he has been THE hardest animal I've had to take care of, I love him and want him to be okay...I was hoping to spend at least the next 10-15 years with him...
Thanks for any help y'all can give me! I actually hear him munching on his millet spray I put in there!

fingers crossed
