by Pajarita » Wed Sep 10, 2014 10:08 am
Oh, geez! Please understand that we are not here to make you feel bad. We are here for the birds and, although I really and truly feel in my heart for your situation, I can't help but think that your home is not the right place for a parrot, my dear. You simply do not have the time or energy for it and the bird is suffering because of it. You speak of 'when she was a baby' but what you fail to realize that, at 8 months of age, she is still a baby. A baby that, for all purposes and effect, has been abandoned to its own fate. Imagine a 3 year old child left in a cage all day long, somebody brings it food and immediately leaves and, sometimes, when this person has time and energy, spends a little time but, the rest of the day and day after day, the child can see and hear people in the distance but can't reach them. It's all alone, hour after hour, day after day, week after week, month after month... It's not only traumatic, it's sheer torture. Parrots, especially cockatoos, are incredibly affectionate animals that literally NEED to have a loving companion and yours doesn't have anybody. Geez, my Freddie is not even satisfied with seeing me (which yours can't), he needs to be on me and he doesn't even live in a cage or spends his days alone. You speak of the wild cockatoos so you must have observed that they are never alone when adults and much less when they are babies.
Keeping a parrot in a cage by itself was an acceptable practice until very recently and, unfortunately, still is in some countries so it's not as if you are alone - but we have learned a lot about parrots in the last 15 to 20 years and one thing we have learned is that this kind of life is not only unhealthy but also incredibly sad for them. Please don't take our word for it, do some research but don't go to your avian vet because, for one thing, they don't really study avian behavior and, for another, you are his/her client so there is a conflict of interest (he/she will not tell you that you are giving your bird a miserable life because if he/she does, you won't use his/her services any longer). Go to Nature, to ornithologists, to avian behaviorists and you will see that this is not our opinion, it's a fact. Don't get mad at us, give us the benefit of the doubt and do some research instead.