by Wolf » Tue Aug 19, 2014 5:24 am
Well you have just gotten your bird and brought him home, congratulations on your new friend. Now you want to have fun and play with him, but you have not stopped to consider his feelings and right now he is confused and scared, after all until recently he didn't even know that you existed and he certainly wasn't in this new place that you have taken him to. There is nothing here that he recognizes. Everything is so new and strange, and scary to him. So you should give him a few days to relax into his new environment so that he is not so scared.
Set aside several 15 minute blocks of time, each day, 3 or 4 blocks should be enough. these blocks of time are for the purpose of reassuring your new found friend so that he can understand that you want to be his best buddy and will not hurt him. The only things that you will do during these sessions, as I call them, is to talk to your bird, offer him a few treats and observe him. These sessions will provide the opportunity for you to gain his trust while giving him the time to get past his fears.
For a 15 minute session you will only need 3 or 4 treats, which you will offer to him sporadically throughout the session. Now start talking to him. Neither he nor I care what you start off with but as a general rule for me, I try to talk about the bird, myself and the relationship that I would like to build with him and I like to include lots of praise for the bird while talking to him. You should observe your bird friend closely during these sessions and try to recognize his body language and begin to work out what it means. You will want to begin with the treats being offered through the cage bars and when he takes them gently and willingly you open the cage door and offer the treat directly from your fingers without the bars in the way. when he is taking these treats in a consistent manner as well as gently then you start offering the treat so that he needs to step up onto your hand to get the treat. When he does this once or twice it is time to begin target training him.
Never try to force your bird to do anything as it will only lead to you getting bit, everything that you do together must be done at his pace and he must do them willingly, there is no other way to do things with him that works without causing problems. Also try to keep your movements relatively slow so as to not scare him.
Please let me knowhow things progress.