pinkswirl51 wrote:I got my budgies in October and I think they r 5 months old. I took my male budgie out a few days ago and it flew real high. I saw the fear in his eyes as he landed
I had to grab him and put him back. It got so scared that it vomitted:(:( I cried :'( plzzz help! What should I do? I don't want it to be in its cage everytime. Thnx!
I just saw your post in Michael's blog section and realized that it was the same question that you asked here. So I went back and looked up all of your posts, which is why I am here now. I replied to you on this thread and tried to explain to you that your budgies actions were perfectly normal given the current circumstances and advised you to relax and let your budgies out and let them fly about in the room. I know that you get scared that they are going to hurt themselves, but you grabbing them and holding them too tightly is much more dangerous to them than is their flying into things until they calm down a little. You, apparently resented my answer and have not replied to me , instead, you keep having the same problem and asking the same question. I can assure you that it does not matter who you ask or which site you go to and ask this same question that if the people who reply to you know anything about these birds you will get the same answers.
Since I read all of your posts, I will try again to answer you, because I care about your birds as much as I care about my own birds and this situation really needs to be resolved for the birds to be healthy and happy.
You have had your birds for 5 or 6 months now and they are not tame yet. This is because you spent your time with training them instead of taming and bonding with them. This is a very common error. You can redirect your efforts to earning their trust and bonding with them and then come back to the training after you have bonded with them and I will be happy to help you through this. But, ultimately, you are still going to have to open the cage and let them come out, and you will still need to sit calmly while they do what they will even if their first reaction is to fly about like crazy. They will get that out of their system and then you will see that everything is alright. The more time that they can spend out of the cage the better they will fly and they will be calmer and more confident because of it.