Hello!
I have a Black Masked Lovebird named Mango, he is my only pet bird. I've had him for a little over a year now and I seem to be having a reoccurring problem; He HATES hands.
Despite this, he thoroughly loves me. He will spend most of his days sitting on my computer desk, and will often jump into my lap and climb up to sit on my breast or shoulder, nibbling and kissing my lips and cheeks, and grinding his beak contently. However whenever my hands come anywhere near him he puffs up his feathers and opens his beak threateningly (strangely enough, he eats bread from my hands if I hold it out to him).
I try my best to avoid handling him as I know how much he dislikes it, and instead I do small exercices like creeping my hand closer to him when he's sitting contently on his perch, and retracting when he gets uncomfortable. Unfortunately his wings are clipped (we have cats), so there are times where I do have to handle him if he happens to fall on the floor or if I have to transport him back to his cage. He is tolerant and non-aggressive of my picking him up but if I keep him perched on my hand for too long he gets very upset, so I try to make the transition between point A and point B quick so he doesn't get upset.
I've tried helplessly for a year to get him to be okay with my hand, with nearly no progress. What can I do?