by Pajarita » Fri Jul 28, 2017 9:24 am
Welcome to the forum and congrats on your two new babies! First thing you need to do is stop ALL flooding techniques so no more forcing them to accept your touch or your hand inside their cage. These techniques came into disuse years ago and nobody who really knows anything about birds will recommend them any more because they work only in the short time and backfire in the long term.
Now, these are aviary birds so you need to get them a flight cage which needs to be placed against a wall (it will make them feel safe and reduce stress) and which should also be high enough that the top perches (which should be tree branches and not dowels) are at your eye level (because you want to gain their trust first and looming over them is not conducive to it). Then you need to think about their diet because as these are, most likely, parent-raised birds, without a proper 'reward', it will take you years and years to get their trust. For parrots that don't yet love us, the ONLY reward worth 'working' for is a high protein food item. That's it. There is nothing else. But, if you free-feed high protein food, like seeds, pellets, nutriberries, avicakes, nuts you will never convince them to take anything from your hand. My plets eat raw produce (they LOVE greens and fruits!) and gloop for breakfast and all day picking and high protein (a budgie seed mix) only for dinner. Next is the establishment of a steady routine. This helps to reduce the inevitable stress brought on by captivity but it's also essential for taming and training. The best time of the day to interact with them is after their breakfast and before their dinner. During these times, you should spend as much time as you can in the same room with them but doing your own thing like watching TV, reading a book, playing a video game, whatever - the idea is for them to get used to your physical presence without them feeling 'targeted' by you. Talk, sing, whistle to them and, every now and then, offer them a treat from your fingers between the bars of the cage BUT, if they don't take it, wait a few seconds and just leave it there and walk away. This is NOT a reward, it's a gift, a token of friendship, a way of showing them that you are not going to force them into anything and that you just want to be their friend. Once you see that they don't move to the back of the cage when you approach it and, instead, get closer to the side where you are coming from and eagerly await the 'gift', you can start target training them -Michael's book and videos can help you with that. After that, it's teaching them to step up.
Now, two words of caution. Don't get impatient because the process is going to take a couple of months and that's only if you do everything right. And, last but not least, plets are VERY opportunistic breeders and, if you don't keep them at a strict solar schedule with full exposure to dawn and dusk, they will become overly hormonal and they might become bitey, start plucking and the male might even end up hurting the female. I recently took in a pair from a dear friend who passed away and he had to separate them because the male was biting the female -and the female was plucking. They are together and doing fine now (she is now fully feathered again) but I am VERY careful about their diet and light.
Let me know if there is anything that needs further explanation and/or clarification.